
Okay, there are times in life when the comments get so out of hand that they must become a post of their own! THIS is one such time. As, I'm sure you read on the previous post, my used-to-be-best-friend arrived at our home this past Wednesday night bearing a belated birthday cake for me that made derogatory references to my incredible pup, Ransom ("Happy Birthday and Good Luck with your dumb coyotoe dog!" Dumb...Hmmm....guess I won't point out that LISA spelled coyote 'coyotoe' on my cake!) Well, after I posted a picture of the cake, Lisa felt compelled to leave a comment further driving home her insults by expounding further about, "the truth written in red on the B-day cake. Ransom is dumber than a box of rocks...looks extremely homely--looking like a scroungy coyote and when she runs... she even looks like a coyote trotting in the distance. What blows my mind is that she had the pick of the litter!!" Hmmm...the only thing that blows my mind is that Lisa finally figured out how to spell 'coyote'!

Of, course I had to enter a rebuttal comment to set the record straight...and, I would have left it at that had not my sister-in-law, Jan lit the fuse again by commenting, "which part of the dog comment was supposed to be the insult? 8) "
So, I feel I must fully explain the facts as they are!
Lisa (my used-to-be-best-friend) was the breeder who allowed me to have the pick of her dog's first litter. I went up to Kansas City at least once a week beginning the day the pups were born and continuing forward until they were old enough to leave their mother. I spent inordinate amounts of time STUDYING each and every pup and watching their interactions within the litter and also to new experiences apart from the litter. I have to admit that ALL the pups were very intelligent and had exceptional dispositions, but each had its own personality and own individual strengths. I chose the BEST ONE. She was the alpha in the litter. She was the first pup to growl...beating the other pup by weeks on that score! She was the first pup to bite Lisa on the nose (why Lisa insists on putting her nose right up to the puppies noses and cooing and gooing over them, I will never understand...obviously Ransom didn't either, because she issued an ominous grown and then nipped Lisa right on the tip of her nose quite hard! Even at that tender age of just 3 weeks, she KNEW how to get obnoxious people out of her face!) While about five of the pups in the litter were extreme snuggle/cuddle-bugs, my little pup didn't need ANYONE! She was the first to explore the rest of the yard far from the other pups and her own mother. She never was ooey-gooey over people who came to look at the puppies and play with them. She was aloof. She was dignified. She was self-assured and confident beyond measure. She would make eye contact with Lisa, who loved on her often, but not me. She would respond to Iran (Lisa's husband), and come when he called her, but not me. (Back in those days, her litter name was just "Black"...because she was the blackest of all the pups. Iran called her "Tortuga" though (Spanish for "turtle").)
Ransom was unflappable. If there was a loud sound that startled the other pups, she barely even bothered to open her eyes to look...yet, on the other hand, she was the most observant. She was the first to notice things, but the last to be upset by them. Though she was the calmest pup, she was also the most aggressive. I had her and one of her brothers with me over at my parents' home (a brief afternoon trip away from the litter) when they were about 4 weeks old. They were in a strange place, away from the litter. They were both standing side by side in my parents' back yard. They had both come over to my mom and were standing there between her two feet, when a dog in a neighboring yard began barking. Both dogs alerted instantly. RANSOM took a step FORWARD out from between my mom's legs and away from her brother, drawing CLOSER to the barking sound and, with her ears erect and her tail held high she BARKED right back...like, "You think you're tough, buddy? Well, just come over here and I'll show YOU who's the boss of THIS yard!"
Early on, my pick was between Ransom and the one brother (who was EXTREMELY RESPONSIVE to me and would follow me everywhere. HE picked me. And he was an excellent pup...very intelligent and confident and quick to respond to me...I could tell he was going to be a joy to train). It was a hard decision between the two. My only reservation about the black pup (Ransom) is that she was so unresponsive to me. I leaned towards the boy pup for over a month, simply because he was so clearly bonded to me and it just grabbed my heart the way he obviously LOVED me. Ransom (the black pup) didn't care one way or the other about me. But, Ransom was less EXCITABLE than the boy pup. He was wired tight...jumping and bouncing at every new sound. Ransom was rock solid...though she was very energetic when playing with the other puppies, she was very calm and unexcitable when it came to different things in her environment and new experiences and highly stimulating activity around her...I liked that. And I liked her self-assured independence. She was fine being alone. There was not a dependent bone in that dog's body. Sure, she wasn't all snuggly and cuddly like the others, but I saw in her a quality that would make her more of a one-person dog than any of the other pups would ever be.
The night before I had to make my final decision, I took both Black (Ransom) and the boy pup (who, actually I had been calling 'Ransom' up to that point...assuming that I would choose him) away from the litter and, Doug (who had come to KC with me) and I got a hotel room for the night that would allow pets. Getting to spend time that evening and night with both the boy pup and Ransom (Black) was all it took for me to be 100% certain in my heart which one I wanted. I wanted Black. By 2:00am that morning she was clearly demonstrating attachment to me (which she had not formed before...but, then, I had always held the more responsive boy puppy and not interacted as much with the less responsive Black, though I always had watched her closely, too and had always told her, "If I don't pick him, I'll pick you!"). When I saw that Black WOULD attach to me and WAS responsive (in her own unsnuggly way), I picked her. Actually, just in teaching the pups only to wet outside, Ransom understood IMMEDIATELY. She never had a single accident in the hotel room and, after the first time of being set in the grass and instructed "Go potty!" she CONNECTED those words with the action. Literally from the first time onward, that pup would potty on command and NEVER pottied inside, EVER. Even as a tiny pup, she was a joy to travel with because she didn't have any accidents. When she needed to relieve herself, she would whine, but hold it. The moment we stopped the car and let her out, she would do her business and I would be back in the car with her in less than sixty seconds flat. She didn't nose around, act like it was play time, get distracted....I would say, "Go Potty!" and she would squat BOOM that moment, do her stuff, and then step back to my feet, sit down and look up at me.
Though I felt terrible about not taking the little boy pup...felt like a traitor, because he clearly was already very attached to me...still, I never once regretted the choice I made. Black (Ransom) is the pup that I would choose over again. And, as it turned out, the little boy pup was bought by a young woman who's German Shepherd that she had been deeply attached to had died, not long before. Every one of the boy pups personality traits mirrored her previous dog. She was so in love with the little boy pup from the very first moment. She was the perfect home for him and he was the perfect pup for her! And, the moment I saw how incredibly PERFECT the match between the two of them was, I no longer felt sick in my own heart that I had "left him behind".
Meanwhile, Ransom has become EXTREMELY attached to me. She is very affectionate in her own subdued, dignified, subtle way. But, she isn't lovey-dovey with people outside of the family. She politely tolerates them with quiet patience, but she does not yearn for their attention and she certainly does not obey them if they try and make her do something...nor will she eat from their hand if they try and share a treat with her. I have not trained her to do this, it is just her genes...her inborn nature...the traits she was BORN with. Actually, I HAVE trained her to politely tolerate those outside of the family...her inborn nature was to attack first and ask questions later. I have socialized her extensively around unfamiliar people and unfamiliar dogs, until she has learned that she is not allowed to show aggression without my approval. She is a great dog! She is a lot different from her litter mates, who, were/are very affectionate, sweet dogs. Ransom has her sweet side, too, but she doesn't wear it on her sleeve.
Now, I will give Lisa credit that actually, being objective, Gabby (her pup, Ransom's sister) IS a lot prettier than Ransom. BUT, Ransom is one SCARY looking dog. She has a wild look about her that I think is pretty cool!...a wolf-look quality that Gabby missed out on. Gabby, with her exceptionally soft, plush coat and beautiful markings looks very domesticated and ready to take the ribbon at the next dog show. My little pup, with her scraggly markings (countless odd gray hairs sprinkled through the black fur on her face) looks ready to protect her pack! And, also in fairness, I feel compelled to add that though Gabby instinctively LOVES people, she wouldn't hesitate a moment to use every ounce of her strength to protect her family and home...there isn't a cowardly bone in that pup's body. Honestly, Gabby is by far the better FAMILY dog. But, I like that hint of wolf-like wariness that runs through Ransom's blood...none of the other pups had that. There were a couple of somewhat shy pups, but, even they were eager to be able to trust and love people. Ransom isn't a bit shy. Her avoidance isn't from fear..she just plain by nature doesn't like people overly much and doesn't see any need to earn their acceptance/approval/affection.
And, I do have to admit that Gabby is extremely sweet. She is such a loving pup...but, personally, I like that my dog is a one-person dog. I also have to admit that Gabby knows all kinds of adorable tricks...If you tell her, "Give me a high five!", she will reach her front paw up and enthusiastically smack your open palm....if you tell her "STEALTH, Gabby, STEALTH!" she will silently and swiftly belly crawl with her body and head hugging the ground closely like a furry Rambo sneaking in on the bad guys! ....and, I have to admit that Gabby COMES instantly the MOMENT she is called. No matter how far away she is, she will spin on a dime and come TEARING back to you when you call her. She comes to anyone who calls her by name. My dog will look at you like you are stupid if you call her. If I call her, she will usually come immediately (95% of the time)...but, I need to do some long line work with her to teach her that she must comply 100% of the time. I will readily admit that Gabby is more compliant and easier to train...not because she is SMARTER (she isn't one little bit more intelligent than Ransom), but simply because she is by nature eager to please. My dog is not tainted by that flaw! My dog understands that I am the leader and she is quick to comply with my directives, but she isn't interested in pleasing just for the sake of pleasing. She only seeks to please me because I am her leader. Though that trait makes day to day training more challenging, still it is THAT very trait that makes her such a one person dog. I don't know if I could TRAIN a dog not to obey other people and not to accept food from other people and not to follow happily after other people...but the trait that makes my dog more challenging to train is the very trait that makes her such a courageous, rock solid, aloof dog with single-hearted-loyalty to her own family alone.
So, though my Ransom has to endure countless negative comparisons and insults at the hand of my dear friend, Lisa...still, Ransom and I both know that SHE is a unique, rare dog! Any insult or negative comparison thrown at us rolls like water off a duck's back...because WE know who we are! ...and, yup(!), my pup is a bit more coyote or wolf than house-puppy...that is the very thing I like most about her!!!
And, as much as I like to act like I am taking offense as Lisa's jabs, I am so excited that we are getting to camp down at Roaring River together this weekend! Iran and Lisa and Gabby already left this morning, to get the cabin set up. I plan on taking the kids out of school early this afternoon and the kids, and Ransom, I will join them. Grant can't make it this time (yeah...he's REALLY disappointed he has to miss out on camping...NOT!) because he has a print seminar in St. Louis Saturday. Grant LOVES Hatch prints....and, at this seminar, the participants will be taught about the process of making Hatch prints and then will get to design and print one of their own! I know he will have fun at his seminar, but I bet he won't have near the fun that we are going to have camping!!! (And Doug is SO EXCITED that we are bringing the puppy! It has amazed me how much he loves this pup. Doug is not fond of dogs. In fact, when he came to us, at the age of six, he was TERRIFIED of dogs. We had the sweetest, gentlest dogs imaginable...and Doug remained terrified of them for well over a year. Even when he finally got over his fear of Shanachie and Gloria, he still remained a little leary of them. Then we got a puppy, Rivendell. I thought that snuggly, fuzzy, loving little puppy would win Doug's heart. Nope. He was just as leary of her as he was of the grown dogs. So, when we brought Ransom home, it surprised me how attached Doug became to her. She IS a bit scary...but, not to Doug. He loves her to pieces. And, she, for her part, is not a bit put off by his tendency to be a bit rough, without meaning to be. She is rock solid...she doesn't reflexively snap or growl like many dogs are be prone to when hurt (but then, neither do our other dogs), but, unlike our other dogs, she doesn't avoid someone who inadvertantly handles her roughly. She is unflappable. She is a good match for our sensory impaired son. And he is crazy about her. I'm gonna make a dog-lover out of that son of mine, yet!!!)

and, having nothing what-so-ever to do with the topic of this post, is this photo that I snapped yesterday evening. See what is WRONG with this picture? This is the way I found my daughter as she flew up our driveway to return home from biking around the neighborhood with her friend...the child recognized it was cold enough to wear a JACKET, but NOT SHOES?!!!!